This is what my nurse practitioner and I did today at my appointment!! I went in for my six week after-delivery check up....several years late! lol!! The FNP was so sweet...she told me there were no words she could say to me to make any difference...and then her eyes welled up with tears...and we cried. Ahhh...but she did make a difference! She didn't need words...just the fact that she would cry with me and allow me to share with her a few memories of Gus. I consider my visit with her a "hug from God"....she truly blessed and encouraged me today!